"Jesus, Jason - you were really pissed with him in that video!"
He was talking about Ben Video 44 and yes, I was genuinely pissed because of what Ben had done. In fact, I was livid. Going behind my back like that. He was going to pay for it.
My experience is that being angry makes for a much harder, more exciting punishment scene. After all, real punishment requires real motivation, and although I hugely enjoy beating bare ass regardless, if I have a good reason to do it, that's when I really get down to business and just don't hold back.